No one will hire an convicted felon and I can't get it expunged for at least another year. I always do. Current events stuff. He was in hospice and went peacefully. Good luck, I hope things start getting better, don't despair. This board has been a tremendous comfort to me over the years and I thank God for it. But don't say your life is over. I’ll tell you why below. No this is the kind of act that has exploded into the forefront of our consciousness. Assiduity: Work Hard and Don’t Quit Too Early, The Perpetual Attempt to Translate My Spanish Language Self, 2020 Is The Year You Give Yourself More Credit, 3 Microscopic Habits That Take Your Life to the next Level, Why You Shouldn’t Be Ashamed That You’re Still Living at Home. I should also say that when I found out they were doing that, I went straight to my office manager and told her what I did three years earlier.
I was and am truly sorry. I don't believe any mistake can truly ruin your life unless you allow it or it causes your life to end.
..... and, most importantly, talk to your God!
Spent 33 and a half months paying my debt to society. Tabloid quality.
It wasn’t a #metoo offense.
No defense. Vlad the Impaler. My Mom was in and out of mental stablity for a long time and is still after almost four years not completely over the death of my father. I know things are going to be okay, just scary. I then applied for a job for a local cardiology office which I got and I was so happy and relieved but about three weeks after I started there, I had the Sheriff come to my home and arrest me for drug felony charges. And even in a poor financial state, I paid a substantial monetary fine imposed by the court. You can also reach me anytime on my email [email protected] in case you need any help. It was GREAT.
I realize that throughout history some people have done the unspeakable. I don't necessarily believe that but maybe there is something else out there and this was just God's way of kicking me in the butt to find it.
How much is enough? They have openly said so. My life is over. You have to go EVERYWHERE.
Hang in there. Nursing is not the only profession out there. How One Mistake Can Ruin Your Entire Life. Included in this group are family members and former friends who don’t speak to me even today after 18 years.
Anyone with prior experience. I think that way. I should also tell you I have NEVER been in trouble before for anything except maybe a speeding ticket. A Black Sheep.
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I committed an egregious act myself 18 years ago. I hope you can get counseling, it sounds like you have some family issues that contributed to this lapse in judgement. Committed the unthinkable. I'm not in anyway condoning your actions, however, ALL people make mistakes! Front page news. But this is not the level of mistake I am referring to. I do believe this life lesson has come across in everybody’s life.
In the process of my research I ran into a killer quote. I plead guilty. What am I going to do? Guess what they found? The problem — the person who uttered it has become persona non grata.
Keep trying. Demonstrated contrition. It has been several years and I am still SO deeply ashamed just typing these words.
And sometimes colleges give money to women for school if they're going into a predominatly male career like welding or deisel mechanics or truck driving. In the process of my research I ran into a killer quote.
Has 20 years experience. I have applied EVERYWHERE, Walmart, Taco Bell, Dollar Store, etc. From the bottom of my heart thank you All once Again. It's from those mistakes we grow and learn. Many people have forgiven me. Regularly! If you looked up the definition of codependent, you would probably see my big goofy face! Manson. My mother did not take it so well and had a nervous breakdown about a week after Dad passed away. As I pushed away from the keyboard and thought about this celebrity’s offense, all kinds of questions poured into my head.
How long is enough? The message is clear: you can’t have the bad without th… ... After DAYS (and nights) of this, I couldn't take it any more so I made the biggest mistake of my life and I phoned in a bogus rx of vicodin for her using one the doctors that I worked for. While in prison I reached out to many people and took responsibility for my actions. It will be a long road but stick to it, get thick skin and keep trying and you will be the one who determines your future.
No attempt to deflect. By using the site you agree to our Privacy, Cookies, and Terms of Service Policies. I was writing a post a while back. I know when people say “My life is ruined” it’s usually a temporary problem to a solution they can’t see the answer to yet. As someone demonstrates remorse and apologizes, what specific things should we look for them to say and or do that prove they are repentant. I only share this to indicate the extent to which I was willing to go in repenting and taking personal responsibility. If at all…, “Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.” ― Mark Twain, What Overcoming Childhood Mutism Taught Me About Resilience. YOu can still write to the board and maybe they will let you go through the peer assistance program in your state once you become a nurse. Specializes in LTC, Med/Surg, Peds, ICU, Tele. Perhaps I should have done more.
More contrite. LOVE yourself! I wish you a future filled with peace and happiness and the success which I'm sure will be yours. I think that way. Even the ones I don’t immediately use. Hitler. A “white collar” crime as those types of offenses are labeled. I don't mean that in any particularly religious way, but more so in a personal one. I ruined my life but I want to have one again. So I didn’t.
Specializes in Oncology, Cardiology, ER, L/D.
It was so good I started trembling with excitement at the possibility of using it in my post.
You did what you did from a place of love and care for your mother, and while it was wrong ... in the big picture of things in this life journey, it's minor comapred to what others have done and continue to do. In my case I was convicted of a felony. Since 1997, allnurses is trusted by nurses around the globe. To make a long story short one day she called me crying and screaming about her pain levels and she couldn't take it anymore, could I please just kill her? Medical work is not the only thing you can do. Paid a larger price. But it will pass, and be expunged, and you can start fresh.
It wasn't. Drinking at work? Some bigger than others. Unfortunately, another practice bought the practice that I worked for and started the whole job application process including background checks. We know who they are. I wrote about my first day paying that debt here…. How could I have done this to my life? Jack the Ripper.
Are there restrictions on the kinds of roles a person is allowed to perform, who they are allowed to be, after committing egregious or offending acts? This person is obviously a celebrity. Be alert to and look for the openings. IT IS NOT! These are easily unforgivable by anyone’s definition of the word. Contacted dozens of people to say I was sorry. My best friend even said the same thing, that maybe this was an opportunity for me to figure out what I really want to do with my life and that maybe healthcare was just a habit since that is all I ever done. Always, but ALWAYS remember .... when one door closes, somewhere a window opens!
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As we can see, it shows the interconnection of light and dark. ((((hugs)))).
Hello all. allnurses.com, INC, 7900 International Drive #300, Bloomington MN 55425 My friends and former colleagues said I was “brave”, “courageous” and “did the right thing”. It shook me to the core. It was on a pog — a popular game in the ‘90s. Been sorrier. Keep your life straight and work hard to find a new career, things will get better, they always do when you try hard. Thanks again. Wuornos. They are inexcusable. You can't give up on finding a job. Personally, I did not believe I should use the quote and attribute them. Thanks, EastTexas, I hear what you are saying. Specializes in Oncology, Cardiology, ER, L/D. Some mistakes are more serious than others. HEY, even welders make awesome money.
DON'T ever give up! I lost my job three weeks ago and I don't know how I will ever found another one. To forgive seems to require super human powers…. Dahmer. Anyway, the cardiology office never found out about the drug charges because when I applied, I hadn't been charged with anything. This is the first thing I say to … Also, it is not the end of you and nursing. However, making those mistakes can lead to a successful life. I have been working on my RN degree for awhile now. You are young, you still have life and a life to live!
Specializes in Med/Surg/Ortho/HH/Radiology-Now Retired. The journey is not over and 2knowmyself is not dead but i am just changing the format from one thing to another. But that doesn’t mean I didn’t hurt good people.
I did a lot of thinking. I should note that after the one place had called the original office where I had worked and found out about what I had done, I went straight to the police department of the town where the pharmacy was and told them everything before I was even officially charged. For future reference. Today I feel truly blessed. I had to drop out a few years ago due to some family health issues. Has 15 years experience. Specializes in ICU. I have very personal reasons for the mental angst these questions cause me. Trust me darlin' by the time you reach my age, .... this will all be but a memory! The Yin and Yang symbol represents philosophies from China, originating some 2400 years ago. No, your life isn't over! I REALLY wanted to use it. Getting married without truly understanding your needs: We all have certain needs that need to be …